Before we take birth, we write the whole of our script. The script includes the whole of the future drama except suicide. We select our parents, our partners, our children, our neighbours, our life-schemes.When we learn to look things again from the point of view of the invisible side, we understand things clearly.
We design our own lives before we are born but we forget what we have decided for ourselves. In that forgetfulness all the suffering happens. Remembering the truth through meditation ends all suffering.